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Wednesday, May 16, 2012- VOLUNTEERS

We also have two places for Volunteers for the whole month of June if anyone out there is interested?

Please email amy@foreverangels.org for more information.
Posted @ 7:36 AM

Monday, May 14, 2012- Some bits and bobs

Today I have some 'bits and bobs' to share with you.....

It has been another relatively quiet week, so no major news to share.

First I would just like to share with you all that our 2012 Business Plan has now been completed - and is available on our website (Publications page) or if you follow this link.

http://www.foreverangels.org/publications/BusinessPlan.pdf

Thank you SO much to our Trustees - Diane and Peter Mitchell for all their incredible hard work in producing this very detailed and professional document.

If anyone is interested in Volunteering - we are pretty full from June through to December now - but we do have 2 places available from July 3rd to July 24th if anyone is interested? 

Please send me an email for more information: volunteer@foreverangels.org


We do have some GREAT news about Alex.  Alex came to Forever Angels at the end of March as he was found alone on the streets in Mwanza.  We believed him to be an abandoned child - but he seemed well taken care of so I was never sure of this.


Anyhow - on Friday - his Mum came to the Baby Home and we hope he will very soon be returned to her!   It turns out, his Mum had got a new job in another region, and had left Alex with his Grandma.  From then, we are not sure what happened, as the Grandma has gone missing.  His Mum came back to look for him when the Grandma stopped answering her phone. 

We have no idea where the Grandma is, or why she came to leave Alex alone - but Social Welfare are looking for her to complete their investigation and then hopefully, Alex will return home to his very loving Mum.

Alex was clearly happy to see his Mum - he recognised her straight away and ran to her arms....we hope his return home will be a speedy process.


Oh - and just before I leave you....a quick thought about Electricity and why having 'none' is actually better than having 'some' a lot of the time!

Sunday was a very good example of this at the Baby Home....

We have power cuts most days here - sometimes for a couple of hours, usually, for the most part of each day.

Not having power can be a tad annoying - but after 9 years of living here - we have gotten used to cold showers, eating bread instead of toast for breakfast, not being able to charge our mobile phones and so carefully choosing which calls to answer, and going to bed early because there is nothing else to do!

When the power goes off in my house now - no one even reacts - we just carry on whatever we were doing, albeit squinting a little more to adjust our eyes to the darkness!

On Sunday morning we had power.  That's good - right?  WRONG!  Here, the power isn't regulated like it is back home.  I actually know nothing about electricity - but I do know that often, even when we DO have power, the lights are not bright enough to give off any light and the computer refuses to switch on as there is just not enough 'umpf' coming through the wires to make it work!

So we generally rotate between having no electricity, having normal electricity (rarely!), having a 'tiny' bit of electricity (which is not actually enough to power anything!) and what we had this morning....having WAY too much of the stuff!

For whatever reason, good old TANESCO (the Electricity Company) pumped ridiculous amounts of volts into our houses and Baby Home on Sunday and....pretty much everything blew up - some of them (tube lights) - quite literally...!
The fridges, TV, CD players, kettles - pretty much everything electrical at the Baby Home...is now no more!

In my own house, Ben went around madly unplugging everything - but the Baby Home staff were not quite as quick and we have spent today taking all the charred electrical good to be fixed!

So yes, sometimes - having no electricity at all really is better than having the stuff!

And the electrical problems are not really surprising when you see an example of typical Tanzanian wiring!


Posted @ 9:43 PM

Tuesday, May 08, 2012- Little Girl Lost....now back with Mum!

After just one night at the Baby Home, Kulenga was happily reunited with her family.

We DO love happy endings like this!


Kulenga's Mum had to go to visit a sick relative in another town - so she left Kulegna with her grandma.  Kulenga was missing her Mum and 'went to find her' and got lost in town!

As soon as her Mum found out, she went straight to the Police and they were back in each other's arms by 10am this morning.

Kulenga was a really bright, talkative little girl - obviously well cared for.  We are very pleased she is now back home where she belongs.
Posted @ 4:28 PM

Monday, May 07, 2012- A new Child, A New Playroom...and the Beginnings of a New Project

Today we received a new child at the Baby Home - Kulenga Vizano.  We have given her the birthday of August 7th 2008, making her almost 4 years old.

Kulenga was found alone on the streets at 8pm last night near to Vizano Hotel and she spent the night at the Police Station.  We think this is simply a case of Kulenga being a lost child.  She talks a lot and was able to tell us some details about the area she lives and who she lived with - so tomorrow we will take her in the car around Mwanza in the hope of finding her family.

For now, she is enjoying playing with the other children at the Baby Home.  She is a healthy and polite little girl, but for her sake, we hope that she will very soon be reunited with her family.

Thank you SO much to our Volunteers - Carolyn, Rhiannon, Sue, Kirsty, Rachel, Phillipa - and also Hayley and Lilian who made a wonderful job of painting our new playroom.  The children LOVE it - thank you so much guys.





Today I spent the morning with a group of young 'Street Mum's'.  These are girls (aged between about 12 and 19 years of age) who are living on the streets, and who are either pregnant or already have babies.  Sadly, the number of street girls becomming pregnant is growing very quickly and although there are street girls projects in Mwanza - none of them seems to be taking responsibility for the girls who get pregnant, or for their babies once they are born.

These babies are at risk in a number of ways:

* They do not have adequate housing or shelter
* They do not have access to medical care if they get sick
* They do not have access to nutritious food when they are weaned onto solid food
* When breast fed, their Mum's are not eating well and so both are at risk of malnourishment
* Their Mum's are often drug and substance users
* They live in non secure 'shanty' houses, among other street children involved in crime and prostitution
* Their Mum's are young and uneducated and unaware of the burden of raising a child

One of these 15 year old girls gave birth on Thursday to a beautiful baby girl - but she had no clothes or blankets for her baby.  We went to visit her and her baby today - just to check there were no health complications following the birth and to make sure she is managing to breast feed (there is no such thing as health visitors here - once a woman has a baby, they are discharged from hospital hours later, and receive no more medical intevention at all - for a young, 15 year old, living in squalor, this is very dangerous!)

We gave her some clothes and advised her on eating and drinking healthily, staying away from drugs and some basic signs to look for in case her baby gets sick.  We also spoke to another (very young) heavily pregnant street girl about looking after herself in the next few weeks until her baby is born - and encouraged her to go to clinic for a check up.

Until Forever Angels can set up a formal programme with these girls and their babies, linking with other Street Work programmes in Mwanza - for now we are just offering clothes for their babies and some basic pre and post natal care and advice to the girls about caring for themselves and their babies in the best way possible.

We do hope to expand this project in the future to try to get these young girls and their babies off the streets and into some sort of sustainble and safe work.  But for now, we are just offering a friendly ear, some basic baby items and the offer to pay for any medical expenses if the Mum's or their babies get sick.

It is a very sad situation having street children at all - but to have babies being born and brought up on the streets is even more heartbreaking.  Forever Angels hopes to work in partnership with Kuleana and other NGO's in the hope of giving these girls a way off the streets, and giving their babies some chance at a better future.
Posted @ 6:33 PM

Saturday, May 05, 2012- Just a normal day in town....

This is not a Baby Home post today as much as a 'Day in the life of Amy' post.....if you are looking for 'baby news', you will have to wait another day or so!!

Some days I crave Asda. I don't miss the actual shop - or even the goods inside the shop - I just sometimes crave the simplicity of parking my car, going into ONE building and being able to buy a number of non related items without it taking an entire day.

On Thursday I had a few items to buy for the Baby Home: black marker pens, a torch, some milk, a single bed sheet, some A4 paper, some string and an umbrella. I know that in my 'old life' in England, I could have nipped into Asda and got all of those items and be in and out within about 10 minutes.

We do not have that luxury in Mwanza!

The shops here are all small and sell very specific items - the black marker pen shop for example, sells marker pens, and maybe even a biro....but it would never sell paper as well! So - shopping lists like mine above, take a number of different shops and a lot of patience (especially since every shop will also have no change, no power to work the till, a broken calculator so the buttons 3,5,0 and = don't work and an owner who is currently off to pray, so just closing his shop as you get to the door!)

My Thursday morning began with a very frustrating shopping dash around town (it was also pouring with rain and in order not to get your car clamped which happens to me on a weekly basis - you have to park your car in one of the 'safe spots' and walk)

So I was wet and mad and tired and wishing, just a little bit, for Asda.

My trip ended with the Post Office - I needed to try to collect a few parcels for the Baby Home. I say 'try' because it isn't as easy as it sounds - in fact - it is not easy at all! I have lived here for 9 and a half years and I still do not understand the Post Office system here.

In fact - I HATE the Post Office......sometimes collecting a parcel can take up to 3 hours - there is no rhyme nor reason as to which counter you should stand at, whether you are charged for collection or not, whether the man from Immigration has to come to open your parcel to check the contents, or even if they can actually find your parcel once you have spent half the day waiting!

That's how it USED to be - before the refurbishment started. Now, I miss the chaos and un-organisation of before - what I witnessed on Thursday, made that look like a perfectly sensible and well oiled system!

On Thursday when I went in, I found the Post Office closed (due to the ceiling falling in after the huge rains we have been having) I was directed around the back to the 'sorting office'. It is quite an apt name actually - it could (at a push) be called an 'office' and it most definitely needed sorting! There were letters and parcels and sacks strewn all over the floors, amongst rubbish and empty boxes and, if you looked hard enough - you'd see employees...sitting on chairs filing their nails, reading, drinking tea....anything but working.

I hurdled over boxes and sacks to approach the friendliest looking Post Office Worker to give my parcel slips to, only to be snarled at and told to wait. So I did. And waited. And waited. Eventually, sighing and huffing and puffing at me, she got up and handed my differently coloured postal slips to various workers (who all threw evil looks at me for actually having the audacity to ask them to do some work!) and then they all sat back down. And told me to wait some more.

So - the waiting went on for a long time - I'd say about 2 hours in total. And while I waited (getting more and more frustrated!) I watched the totally chaotic and unsystematic way they chose to look for my parcels. The coloured slips represent something (but I still have no idea what?!) and in the old system - yellow slipped parcels were kept on the floor, blue in a wardrobe, white on top of the wardrobe and pink under the counter - see, a system!

In the interim refurbishing period - it seems that this 'organisation' has gone out of the window, and the Postal drivers now arrive with a sack of letters, and literally tip them onto the floor. Everyone else stands over them to get to their 'designated' chair....where they sit all day, and nothing ever gets posted or sorted at all!

Eventually, one by one, the staff got up and 'looked' for the parcel they were seemingly responsible for finding for me. Some kicked a few envelopes on the floor, tutted, shook their heads and muttered something incomprehensible to me which I could only guess was that they couldn't find it. Others (to be fair) used their hands and moved and lifted and read the names on 4 or 5 letters and parcels (our of probably 3,000 strewn across the floor) and muttered their apologies about not being able to find mine. And others just didn't bother to even stand up and try!

I was starting to get a little irate by now....and started huffing and puffing myself, cursing Tanzania and its lack of systems and logic and wondering why we chose to live here instead of a 'normal' country where letters get posted through your front door!

Suddenly, just as I was about to leave in temper, a song came on the radio and one of the staff (a rather large lady I may add) squealed in delight, jumped up, turned up the volume to full blast and started dancing right there in front of me (on top of and in between all the letters and parcels!) As soon as the other workers saw her, they all hurried to join and I was given a brilliant, synchronised dance routine!

They were fabulous! They were laughing and whistling and dancing so energetically, wiggling their bottoms and parading around the floor - I could barely remember the reluctant workers I'd sat willing to work for the past 2 hours! For whatever reason, they all knew this particular song and the dance routine which went with it and all danced in time, singing along - it was like a professional music video (I use the term professional in a slightly loose term - if you have ever seen a Tanzanian music video you will understand what I mean!)

(For a taster of something similar to what I witnessed in the Post Office - see here:)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bI_TdEmHeaA&feature=related

Anyhow, after all that, I left without my parcels on Thursday - but with a very big smile on my face! This is the reason I live in Tanzania - we may have a dreadful postal service; and qualities such as order and structure and logic even common sense may be seldom found here - but I live among passionate, people who love life and who really couldn't give two hoots about some white woman's parcels!

I will remember that trip to the post office for the rest of my life - it reminded me (and I DO need reminding sometimes!) why I LOVE Africa and its people.

The drive home was interesting - after all the rain from the morning - we had virtually no roads left! The gushing 'rivers' of water which had poured down the roads all morning had left behind huge amounts of rubble, rubbish and not a lot of road!


Of course - the REAL reason I live here is in this very short video I took this morning of our little Miracle Man - Baraka. Here he is two months ago:


And this tiny video is the Baraka we know and love today!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h8rSN8LlUaw&feature=youtu.be

Now THAT (along with Post Office dancing!) is why I love living here!!
Posted @ 6:29 PM

Tuesday, May 01, 2012- Quiet and Calm

Ok, so I should never say that we are having a time of quiet and calm at the Baby Home, as that just calls out for disaster to happen.....but we really are!

In April we had no new children joining us, and no children leaving the Baby Home.  The officially makes it the quietest month since October 2009!!

Quiet is good though - we like it!  It means we can refine schedules and make positive changes and we have time to evaluate where we are headed.

Our SEN programme is going well and it is clear to see how hard Nasibu and Anna (our SEN Mammas) are working when you see the progress the children with Special Needs are making.

Here are Katy and Ashley who have Cerebral Palsy - both now able to sit up alone for quite a few minutes which is wonderful.


And our Tiny Baby House continues to be a 'haven' with wonderful Mammas giving great love and care to our tiniest babies.  Here are some updated photos of our youngest Forever Angels babies....

Briton

Danny

Goodluck

(I have to admit to not being able to tell these three boys apart right now - and they are not related in any way!!)

Isaac - also now sitting alone

Neema and Baraka were too tired to pose for the camera!

Valerie

Zawadi

And although not a Tiny Baby - Marcus 'accosted' me and wanted a photo....!

(Notice the purple baby?  Marcu has a skin infection which is being treated with Gentian Violet which turns Marcus, and everything he touches, bright purple!!)

Mathias came back for a visit today to collect his medication and he and his family are doing wonderfully well.  He was very sad to see that the chicken he gave me last year has died...and promised to bring me a new one on his next visit!

We are eagerly awaiting the adoptions of a number of children to go through in the next few months and will be delighted when Davey, Nyamfuru, Connie, Yusuphu, Zawadi, Nuria and Ella get their Forever families.
Posted @ 2:13 PM

Saturday, April 28, 2012- A Beautiful Tribute to Our Flown Angels - Thank you Cherie

Not a day goes by that I do not think about all our 'Flown Angels' ....... those Forever Angels babies and children whose lives were sadly cut short and who now fly with the angels in heaven.

Nyanda

Eamon
Adella

Prisca
Remi

Mse
Our sweet Ernest

Stella
Baraka

Our little fighter Sabina

....and my little man, Imani.

Losing a child is the hardest thing any parent has to face - and although the children at the Baby Home are not technically 'mine', they feel like my children and I have loved each and every one and have grieved over every one of their deaths.

Over the past 6 years we have lost 11 of our Baby Home children - some at the Baby Home and others once they have returned home to their families. 

Each of these losses has broken my heart. 

Although these children are forever gone from our arms - they are never going to be forgotten.  I'd like to say a huge 'Thank you', to Cherie Norquay.  Cherie read the poem I wrote about Imani's tragic death last month, and she has rewritten it as a beautiful song and video. 

Please click on the link below and listen to and watch this as a tribute to all our flown babies....and whilst listening and watching, please give a thought to all the parents in the world who have lost a child.

Thank you Cherie, it is beautiful.

Posted @ 7:45 PM

Thursday, April 26, 2012- A Beautiful Visitor and a GREAT smile

This is Margaret - one of our Forever Angels babies when she arrived at the Baby Home in November 2008, aged about 7 weeks old.


This is Margaret and her new adoptive Mum back in December 2010....we were all so thrilled that she finally found her Forever family....


And this is Margaret yesterday coming back for a quick visit to the Baby Home.  What a beautiful little girl she is!


I LOVE seeing our 'flown' children again.  It is one of my favourite parts of my work here at the Baby Home.

And I thought I would share this beautiful photo (thank you Shauneen - your photos are amazing!) of Vicky!  Vicky came to us as a sick, abandoned baby needing shunt surgery for hydrocephelus.  Since her surgery she has grown and developed so well and she is a beautiful and happy little girl!

Posted @ 2:09 PM

Friday, April 20, 2012- From Zanzibar....

Sorry for the lack of posts this week, but I am actually on holiday in Zanzibar with my family and a bunch of wonderful friends for a week.

The Baby Home is left in the wonderful hands of Lilian and Josephine and we have some wonderful Volunteers helping out to make sure everything is fine while I am away.

I am in regular touch and can report a few things to you.....

1) Davey has been selected for adoption!  It will take a couple of months for the final paperwork to be completed - but we are all thrilled that he will finally have his Forever Family.

2) Baraka's wound is healing SO well that it no longer needs dressed and we are considering moving him to the Main Baby Home this weekend!

3) We have just heard that Yazidi's Dad has returned (he 'ran away' after Yazidi was born and we have never heard from him in over 3 years and Yazidi has since gone home to live with his very loving Aunt)  His Dad apparently now wants to care for Yazidi, but his distraught Aunt is going to fight this and we hope Social Welfare grants her permenant custody.

4) The rest of the children are all doing so well - happy and healthy and loving the attention of having great volunteers to play with.

Although I miss the Baby Home terribly and all of my beautiful children - it has been quite a stressful and emotional few months and a week away is like a breath of fresh air.  It has made me appreciate the wonderfully supportive network of friends we have here in Mwanza, and how great my Managers are.

I will be home on Sunday and back to it with more energy, feeling refuelled and refreshed.
Posted @ 10:52 AM

Friday, April 13, 2012- He's Back!

Bobby and Selina just arrived back from Moshi about half an hour ago!  Bobby's eye looks GREAT and he got a warm welcome from all the Baby Home Mammas.

Here is Bobby wearing his new glasses - they are very cute!




This may look like a boring photo - but to me and our Managers - it is very exciting.
This is the medical board in our office - which lists all the sick children....and today, in a very rare moment - it is empty!!


A big thank you to Banco Mattresses who donated 65 new, plastic covered mattresses yesterday....now the children have a new bedroom, new beds AND new mattresses!


Posted @ 10:10 PM

Monday, April 09, 2012- The world with TWO eyes!

Bobby has spent most of his life squinting - looking through only his left eye while keeping his damaged, right eye, closed.

Now - he can open and see through both eyes and we are SO happy for him!

Bobby before surgery      and      Bobby after surgery

We are SO looking forward to having our little man back at the Baby Home later this week and are thrilled that he no longer has this disabling eye problem!
Posted @ 7:24 PM

Sunday, April 08, 2012- Now it's just a Holiday!!!

Bobby's surgery is finished and it all went well - and now the little mite is just chilling at Honey Badger Lodge in Moshi and having a whale of a time!!





Thank you so much to Selina, simply for being amazing, Rachel for helping them out and giving them a fun weekend, and to jenny and Joey for being amazing hosts.
....and of course to Bobby for being the easiest patient in the world!


Happy Easter to all our wonderful supporters, friends and donors - we value each and every one of you.
Posted @ 10:18 AM

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